I don’t remember my first shabbat, but I remember the first meal I ever hosted in my tiny apt on the YU side, which was only $290 in rent. I had no idea what I was doing. Who knew you had to get to Key Food earlier than Thursday night?! Riverdale Kosher Market didn’t exist in my life yet.
I remember davening in the YU Rubin shul Friday night and going to the Bridge Shul on Shabbat morning b/c that’s where all the young people were going. None of my friends went to Mount Sinai. I had never even heard of Mount Sinai. A lot has changed since then.
In 18 years living in Washington Heights, I have:
- served with 17 other trustees for one year on the Mount Sinai board,
- driven to, taken a bus, or flown, to 16 different locations including 12 states and 2 foreign countries, for WaHi friends’ weddings,
- been a member of Mount Sinai for 15 years,
- had 14 roommates,
- stayed in the heights for 13 Rosh Hashanah and Pesach holidays, when it’s typical for young people to clear out,
- driven to and through 12 states on vacations with friends I met in the heights,
- been involved in and\or played in all 11 Panoplies,
- served on 10 different shul committees,
- and contributed, by writing and/or acting, to 9 different Purim shpiels and events,
- moved 8 times
- to 7 apartments on 7 different streets,
- made 6 videos for shul events,
- and 5 fun videos for bridal showers for friends I met in the heights,
- lost 4 roommates to their husbands,
- served for 3 years as First Lady,
- had 2 children,
- and went to 1 Mount Sinai singles event that changed my life forever. #metatmtsinai and #mtsinaimemories - click on (or copy and paste) the hashtags, see what comes up!
This morning’s parsha told us about Yaakov picking up his family and moving down to Mitzrayim, which turned out pretty badly for the Jews. This week, my family will pick up and move to NJ. Not quite Mitzrayim, although their only official sports team is called the “Devils”. And I hope it doesn’t turn out the same way. Although Oren already hinted at roping me into things.
Parshat Vayetzei starts out “Vayetzei Yaakov miBe’er Sheva, vayeilech Charana” - Yaakov left Be’er Sheva and went to Charan. Rashi there asks why was it necessary for the Torah to say that Yaakov left where he was? Why couldn’t it just say “Vayeilech Charana”? Rashi basically says it’s to teach us that when a great person leaves a town, the town is forever changed.
I’m not saying I’m such a great person. I’d like to reframe that Rashi and suggest that when a person leaves a great town, the person is forever changed.
18 years is a very long time, and I’ve definitely changed a lot over the years, and so has this amazing community. When I got here, the younger crowd was so small, that they all fit at one shabbat meal. Then more people moved in and they split into 2 meals and it became “whose meal are you going to?” And they were not really involved at all in the shul. I remember davening in Ben Sandler's apt on Friday nights. Then we started coming to Mount Sinai and davening downstairs, then coming upstairs, and the younger people started getting more and more involved. I got involved in the kiddush committee when a friend called me out of desperation looking for help, and that was it.
I’ve seen soooo much change and growth here, and I’m very proud and honored that I could have a part in it. Kiddush committee will always have a special place in my heart. As will Panoply and the shul dinners. The fundraising committee I could have skipped.
Through the years, I’ve learned the importance of being involved in my community. I’ve learned how to be a leader, I’ve also learned how Not to be a leader, and all the mistakes I’ve made, and I’ve learned how to sit down and support someone else being the leader.
This is a very special community that gives everyone so many opportunities to be involved, to contribute, and to share. I’m very blessed that I was able to take advantage of those opportunities. I’ve certainly shared a lot of myself here, a lot of my family, our smachot. I’ve made countless friends and even more memories that I will treasure forever. I encourage all of you to also take advantage of everything the shul has to offer. And if the shul doesn’t offer something that you would like to see, make it happen. There really is no limit to what you can do here.
With credit to Stephen Schwartz and Idina Menzel,
It well may be
That we will never meet again
In this lifetime - (although I hope that’s not true. Please come visit us!)
So let me say before we part
So much of me
Is made of what I learned from you
You'll be with me
Like a handprint on my heart
And now whatever way our stories end
I know you have re-written mine
By being my friend…
Who can say if I've been changed for the better?
But because I knew you - b/c I lived here -
I have been changed for good.
Thank you.
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